Thank you both, flipper & AEW....
In the weeks leading up to the DFing, even tho the new 'silver sword'had been received, the 'bro' used the reference bible, so he could give the the 'mentally diseased' 'hate speech talk.'
One in my family views it this way: "The people at the hall think they show "love by shunning." His response is, "Love by education."
Two days ago, he had a 35 minute conversation with a witness, the first 5 were akward, "Did you know I was DF'd?" but, the 30 minutes after left both with their dignity. Each expressed love for each other, and the active witness is determined to find out all the facts about child abuse issues.
This family member is hopeful that there are several active witnesses on the verge of a "crisis of conscience" and will be joining in the stand against the WT.
The other DF'd family members have not had any positive experiences thus far.
I am not DF'd, but have been treated very 'differently.'